Why do toddler boys love trains and cars so much?
My two-year-old loves trains. He really loves trains, especially steam engines, like Thomas.
Many other parents have said that their boys love (or loved) trains, and I can remember being enamoured with Ivor the Engine as a boy.
Why do boys love trains and cars so much?
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Things you can move are more fun than things that don't move. Wheeled things are unpredictable, wheeled things on tracks somewhat less so. So young children like these things. And parents can encourage it, which makes them like it even more. And anything that is a miniature of the real world things they see (people, vehicles, scenery) or that is on TV also appeals to them.
For the gender aspect, here is a story my sister truly observed. There was some sort of playgroup / playdate / neighbourhood get together with a large pool of toys, some of which were new to some of the kids. She saw a boy giving a doll a ride in the back of a dump truck, and a parent of that boy commented to the air:
Only way you'll see my boy with a doll! Drive it around in the truck!
A short time later she saw a girl giving a doll a ride in the same truck, and another parent, who hadn't witnessed the first incident, remarked:
No matter how many toys there are in a place, my girl goes for the dolls!
So, why is it that boys like trucks and girls like dolls? Hm?
Kids are hardwired to figure out who they are and how they fit in, and by an early age they have figured out gender and what that means - it's one of the first layers of identity. Studies have shown that even when the parents have very liberal gender views, kids still see past that to the wider societal view.
I am not convinced, personally, that this is a huge problem. Children conceptualize very broadly when they are young, and as they mature, they begin to see individual differences. As long as parents are very open to individual differences as their child develops, that early understanding should not be prescriptive of how they must behave, while it will alert them to areas of difficulty they will encounter if they don't conform to norms. This may help them protect themselves from ridicule as they explore identity.
A recent study about gender and toy preference determined that even when parents thought they were not influencing their children's toy choices, the children identified toys by "gender" as ones their parents would approve of or not. Here's an excerpt from the study:
Young Children’s Construction of Gender
Children construct their understandings of gender at an early age. By
about 24 months they begin to define themselves as ‘‘girls’’ or
‘‘boys’’ (Kohlberg, 1966; Kohlberg & Ullian, 1974; Sandnabba &
Ahlberg, 1999). And they are apt to have rigid definitions of how
girls and boys should behave by the age of five (Martin & Ruble,
2004). The acquisition of these gender stereotypes demonstrates that
children are very effective students of culture. They quickly learn to
categorize ‘‘girl toys’’ and ‘‘boy toys’’ in socially acceptable ways
and to behave as they think they ‘‘should’’ (Raag & Rackliff, 1998;
Powlishta, Serbin, & Moller, 1993). Preschoolers have been shown, for
example, to reliably apply gender stereotypes when responding to
questions about how their parents, teachers or babysitters, peers, and
siblings would want them to play. Girls know they are expected to play
with dish sets and baby dolls and boys know tools, trucks, and cars
are for them (Raag & Rackliff, 1998).
The authors of some studies have noted that society’s definition of
what is feminine has expanded since the launch of the women’s movement
in the early 1970s, but the definition of masculinity has not been
similarly revised (Fagot & Littman, 1975). This line of inquiry has
documented that while the current generation of girls is more likely
to be encouraged to do things that were once considered masculine than
were their mothers, the past 20 years has seen both children and
adults narrow their definitions of appropriate behavior for boys
(Burge, 1981; Cahill & Adams, 1997; Fisher-Thompson, 1990; Martin,
1990; Moulton & Adams-Price, 1997; Turner & Gervai, 1995).
How are Children’s Cross-Gender Behaviors Perceived?
Researchers who describe adults’ and children’s typical responses to
cross-gender play consistently report that boys who engage in ‘‘girls’
games’’ are more likely to be criticized by parents, teachers and
peers than are girls who enjoy activities and materials labeled as
‘‘for boys’’ (Cahill & Adams, 1997; Martin, 1990; Martin, 1995;
Martin, Wood, & Little, 1990). These results have been interpreted as
evidence that adults share concerns that boys who exhibit cross-gender
behaviors will become increasingly feminine, but believe that girls
will outgrow their ‘‘tomboyishness’’ and will become as feminine as
their ‘‘typical’’ female peers (Sandnabba & Ahlberg, 1999). It has
been documented, moreover, that fathers often more rigidly impose sex
role expectations on their sons than on their daughters, and that they
are less flexible in their definitions of gender appropriate behaviors
than are boys’ mothers (Burge, 1981).
Freeman, Nancy. "Preschoolers’ Perceptions Of Gender Appropriate Toys And Their Parents’ Beliefs About Genderized Behaviors: Miscommunication, Mixed Messages, Or Hidden Truths?" Early Childhood Education Journal 34.5 (2007): 357-366. Academic Search Complete. Web. 22 Dec. 2013.
Why do boys love trains and cars so much?
Biology.
Science has discovered a link between hormones and toy preferences. Boys prefer toys with mechanical/moving stimuli while girls prefer toys with social stimuli. The reason for this difference is the different levels of hormones - primarily androgen - coursing through the bodies of boys and girls.
You can read more about this here: www.psychologytoday.com/blog/homo-consumericus/201212/sex-specific-toy-preferences-learned-or-innate
The smoking gun is this though. Girls with abnormally high levels of androgens (via CAH) prefer to play with boy toys. Boys with abnormally low levels of androgens prefer to play with girl toys. If culture were truly the motivating factor here, this would not be true. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12414881
The way your question is worded implies that you see boys liking these toys but not girls.
Modern culture is the reason. There is absolutely no reason for kids not to like trains, and where cultural biases are not too strong, girls love trains and cars just as much.
In general, children should enjoy toys that they can build multiple things from (eg Lego, Meccano, K-Nex etc) but also toys that move. These are all good stimulants for the brain, hand-eye coordination, planning etc.
My middle daughter loved trains, but all my kids love cars. To be fair, I do a lot of motor racing, and they probably got the bug from me, especially when they got their cadet karting licences.
Based on your specific question, there is no answer that fits all unfortunately.
It really depends on what your child is exposed to, what you as a parent do, and what you encourage. These are the three basic foundations for a child liking or disliking some sort of activity.
My daughter absolutely loves trains, dinosaurs and lego. I don't buy into the answer given by MJ6 on this topic or the general gender stereotypes provided by others in this thread.
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