Should I let a 1 month old to sleep on her belly under surveillance?
My daughter is usually comfortable only when held up, after 30 minutes of leaving her on the crib (with much luck) she starts crying and she never gets fully calm by her own, except when sleeping on her belly. If we lay her down looking up she wakes up after an hour, best case scenario, but she can easily sleep 4 or 5 hours facing down.
I know downward sleeping is not safe for a child her age, but I wonder if she is next to me and I'm working or watching a movie would that also be a problem? What would be the alternative to get her to sleep facing up for longer stretches?
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On the assumption that through the other answers you've accepted belly-sleeping to be a bad idea, you'll be looking for alternatives. My kids slept really well in "cocoonababy" sleep nests. These days "sleep nests" are everywhere, but most of them are flat with a soft surround. The ones we had were shaped so that the baby doesn't have to completely flatten their body to be fully supported.
I believe this idea was developed in French maternity hospitals - the thinking being that a baby has been curled up since it was 3 cells big, and so asking it to suddenly lie completely flat is a bit much for them to take (although I can't corroborate any of that).
There are no pillows, and a baby can't roll out of these nests (even when getting a bit too big for them) - I'm by no means an expert, but they looked pretty safe to me. That said, they weren't on the "explicitly allowed" list when we used them. Things may have changed, but back then there was no maternity nurse or post-natal health care worker that would ever have happily agreed to their use, much less recommended them (the advice was always "lie on their back on a flat mattress"). You should evaluate carefully for yourself, as noted in other answers, issues during sleep can be serious and hard to spot.
I'm not going to address the wider question, but you are not going to notice if your baby stops breathing unless you are actively watching their chest move, and possibly not even then. Here is one harrowing account from a father who's son died in his lap while he did email.
Staring at your baby's chest for hours on end is unlikely to work either: studies have found that people who monitor CCTV for crime can't actually pay attention for more than about 20 minutes before their minds wander. You might be a bit more motivated than a minimum-wage security person, but it doesn't get around the fact that human brains aren't set up to do this.
Research has found that babies this young being in deep sleep is actually more dangerous and may contribute to SIDS. (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK513387/) So its actually safer for her to not sleep too deeply.
To encourage her to sleep better on her back though, you can try swaddling her. Some babies like their arms up instead of down as they'll be in a traditional swaddle. You can look at zipped swaddles that let babies sleep with their arms up, yet have their torsos wrapped tight and cozy.
My personal favorite is the LoveToDream swaddle. Babies are also able to bring their hands to their mouth for soothing themselves.
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