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How can we help our 5-year-old daughter enjoy a family activity and stop complaining, when she just wants to watch cartoons?
Our 5-year-old daughter loves cartoons. She can watch them all day, unless we take the phone from her. She says she's bored otherwise. I should probably also mention that she's so impatient that the moment a cartoon ends, she asks us if we can check whether there's another cartoon.

Yesterday, I, my wife and our daughter went to a nearby island to have a good time. We had a nice meal there (of course, she watched some cartoons towards the end) and wandered off to see some beautiful scenery. Our daughter started nagging about her wanting to watch some cartoons where we said no, she can't because we are here as a family to have a good time. She began complaining that she's bored. The whole thing ended with her getting banned from watching cartoons for an indefinite time. We all sulked.

We would like her to stop watching cartoons and complaining, so we can enjoy the family time together. How could we have handled this situation better?


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TLDR;

This needs work long term. My approach would be to:

Limit the screen time.
Do not have any screens when out of the house (unless the hosts propose watching something).

Long version:

My kids love watching TV and playing video games. My compromise is to limit the amount of time and not to give any more. Since it has already become a habit for your daughter, the tantrums will be huge, but explain calmly that this is a new rule, and do not give in. It takes about a week in our house for the kid to accept new rules. Whatever the limit is, stick to it irrespective of what is happening.

When my kids were young, the rule was 1 episode of ABC-show. As they got older and started selecting their own shows/ games, I'd set a timer for an hour and stop promptly after that hour. If something happens that they did not get to use their hour on a certain day, they can combine it for the next day. Figure out what works for your family. Tell your daughter that its OK to be bored. Do something with her.

There have been times when these are not followed, but those are the exceptions rather than the norm and its clear to my kids. My older one is 8 now, and he understands that the screen time limit is so that he gets to do other things. For my younger one, its just a "house rule". When they get bored, they roll on the floor or jump on the furniture or kick a ball around - kids are meant to be noisy :-)

This also means that the adults also should limit their screen time usage - TV and all devices.


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